Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
It's so easy to think that I'm better than others - I'm smarter, speak better, dress sharper, think about less petty issues... But as they say, pride goes before a fall.
Who am I to judge others around me? Sure, it's best for people to help themselves, especially if they don't seem happy or satisfied where they are. As they say again, teach a man to fish and...
Now, loving others fervently, that's tough, isn't it? Perhaps I haven't found the secret key yet.