What if you can't?
What if, at that point, you start to see yourself for who you are, and the other in more clarity?
Then the ground gets pulled from under you...
Life is brief. Read Psalm 90.
Serving the needs and expectations of superiors and others is important, isn't it? When one's attitude is apparent for one to see...can't close eyes and shake it off...
Worthy of pursuit is--not activities with temporary gain--the realising of deep-seated purpose. Like rain reaching through the ground and meeting the water table.
Find that purposeful living and make it yours.