Tuesday, March 04, 2014
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Thursday, December 12, 2013
Thursday, December 05, 2013
Sunday, December 01, 2013
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Catharsis
Swallow it? Let live? Laugh it off and hope you really did?
If you don't, will it start to gnaw, eat and nibble away your insides?
Symptoms include sighing, lethargy and becoming numbed to other things that ought to matter.
Ask yourself, what do you need?
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
In The Dark
Mortality is not the end of life. As we know it, it's all how you live. Or as I recently learnt from Steve Jobs, it's how you build your life.
Life is full of storms. Some loom large and threaten to blow everything away. Some loom far but don't get close enough. Some brew quietly inside, not visible from without but surely it spins and whirls--demand a real effort to tame it.
There're also moments when the lights seem to go out. And you panic. Perspire. Plead for help. Yet in that moment, perhaps a voice tells you to try. You're in the right place. And step by step, things will fall in place.
Who's to say you're on the right track? Shouldn't each of us be the best judge of that? Maybe not right away, but eventually yes?
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Money and the lack thereof
Whatever amount we have, I think the heart of the attitude is really about having contentment.
As Paul says in Philippians 4:12,
I know how to live in poverty or prosperity. No matter what the situation, I've learned the secret of how to live when I'm full or when I'm hungry, when I have too much or when I have too little. (GWT)Beyond basic needs, can I say that everything else becomes relative? And in crowded SG, driven by competition?
Where does contentment come from? Why are some more generous than others? Maybe it's simply learning to have enough, to enjoy life wherever we are, whatever we have, whoever we're with.
Now, I know comparison with others and focusing on things we don't have always highlight one's lack. But surely we've to remind ourselves that net worth don't determine a person's self-worth.
And if we keep focusing on our needs, whether present or future, we'll never feel we've enough. There's always something that requires money.
Can we simply learn to make the most of what we have? If we prosper, then enjoy the moment. If we don't, well, make do and be happy.
That's right, be happy.
Thursday, August 08, 2013
Pursuing
There is talent, there is hard work and then there is luck. I believe in the luck that comes in the form of favour and opportunity. To make the most of these, one needs an attitude that is hopeful, positive and values networking.
Now, would others around describe you as one who pursues his dreams and priorities?
Pursuit demands energy--relentless--and sweeping aside anything that can distract or detract.
Saturday, July 27, 2013
Love-like
In all of us, there is a need to relate, to connect & to feel loved & accepted. A hole in the soul results from a deficit of these--even the perception of it. A hole that, if it is not mended, will eat on the inside.
When a person reaches out but fails to connect, it's disappointing. But when a person finds not connection but exploitation, the sense of betrayal swells and engulfs. Because now the other person saw you for who you are, your vulnerable core. And now, loss, isolation & darkness ensues.
All is not hopeless. Life is not loveless. One has to hold on to this.
Perhaps it's that, even if we are carrying our own weight, the act of lightening's others' would lighten our own. Is it because it sets things in perspective? It takes the focus off yourself?
Whatever it is, we can all afford to connect. More. Deeply.
Sunday, July 21, 2013
Spurts of Intense Work
Perhaps it's time to do challenging work first thing in your day. Don't be afraid to try it. Make it a habit, so it becomes ingrained. This is towards becoming more effective and to grow in taking on bigger challenges.
Saturday, June 29, 2013
Saturday, June 08, 2013
Time Off
Would you quit your job to do what you always wanted to do? Such as spending a year living in the Arctic Circle, enjoying time with yourself and your family?
This man did. Arctic Dream | Our Family's One-Year Adventure Living on an Arctic Island http://arcticdream.me/
Success isn't money, fame or influence (nothing wrong with these in themselves though). Success ought to be what really matters...to you.




